About Me
What makes me good Dominant you want to submit too?
1. Trust: you can trust me with your feelings no matter how dark or deviant they are. I will never mock you.
2. Intelligence: you want who is worldly, educated, clever, and intuitive.
3. Confident: I am self-assured in my abilities without overstating them. Focused on my quest, do not waiver from my path.
4. Communicator: I am clear, and precise communication is one of my assets. I am also a great listener. In your free time, honest feedback is welcome without any fear of reprisal. You want a man who hears you while accepting that my decisions are final.
5. Action: I do not sit back and wait for life to happen. I plan, take appropriate action to fulfill them "veni vidi vici" is a perfect way to summarize it.
6. Security: I make you feel safe and know that in your heart. I will not abuse you. In some scenarios, there will be a pain. However, you've given me the authority willingly without any coercion to inflict such - even if extreme. You are confident that I'm not going to damage you. I value, respect you highly, and it would be counterproductive not to.
7. Man of his word: I keep my words. My word is my honor. I never promise that I can't deliver.
8. Empowering: I want to encourage you to own your identity. In your career, you worked so hard outside our home. You still are you to others. In slavery, I will not stifle to the point that you feel worthless. I want to free your senses to discover your true destiny.
9. Happy: I make you happy in your submission and subservience, as I understand your darkest needs and joys. I am the conductor to direct you to the full crescendo, time after time, to transcend to nirvana.
10. Joy: We enjoy each other's company. You want to smile for me even shed tears of joy because you know I'm into you. We are on the same page, balancing our needs you to submit and mine to dominate. We have fun no matter what we're doing.
My background
My background is European, have 30+ years of experience in M/s, TPE, and owned slaves before. I am older than you (60s) a child of the '50s. Again, I emphasize you must want an older person! You could say that I am very creative, well balanced, but on the dominating side. And you would be correct! I am precise a perfectionist. I am a good listener and willing to give advice. Many years ago, I was tested for a Corporate job and it was determined that I was an ENTJ. ENTJ = Extraverted Thinking with Introverted Intuition. If you do not know what these mean look it up here: https://www.personalitypage.com/html/ENTJ.html
In my extensive career, I worked in metal fabrication for the oil and chemical industry, commercial construction, for an international bank in Canada, and even for a County Government in the USA. In some of these positions, I was in charge of up to 100 people. I am well organized and can size up situations quickly and act accordingly. I used to have a Green Card but now expired as I moved back to Canada and never renewed. I have dual citizenship: Canadian and the EU. Also fluent, read, write in two languages.
I am not a psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, not here to make judgments, a hypnotist or mind reader. I can not guess your thoughts, well maybe in time I could, I require open and honest communication, and it is a must from you.
Just because I am a dominant person, and can be very intimidating, if I care about the person then I also care about their feeling while being straightforward. I will try not to hurt their feelings, but it happens so be it. I say what I mean or think. That makes me not the most politically correct person. My communication skills are well developed, but my forwardness may not be everyone's cup of tea. As for humour can be witty, wordplay, on the dark side or sarcastic.
I am a retired person, living on my pension, so if you are looking for someone with a huge bank account I am not for you. While I like and value luxury and such goods I am not materialistic. Over the years I downsized a lot.
My interests:
My personal interests include: photography, painting with oils/acrylic, aircraft illustrations done in Photoshop, I am very visually driven, medieval European history, and the list is quite endless. I am never bored. Would be great to share many of these with you especially photography. Over the years I traveled to Austria, Hungary, Slovakia, France, Great Britain several times; Bahamas, Belgium, Finland, Germany, Luxembourg, Malta, and Russia once; just about every State in the USA 44/50, and both coasts of Canada. I tend to drive fast but not irresponsibly one of my few vices. As for music not into rap, reggae, folk music, the rest just depends on my mood. I also enjoy writing even if my grammar is far from the best, it was never my strong point. I wrote many poems about domination, love, hurt all based upon my experiences over the decades.
While I am a Christian, I am not practicing. I am not a Bible thumper or interested in a woman who is. Thus your religion is irrelevant to me, a bit about this later.
As for pets, I owned one German Sheppard and 3 Dobermanns, and one cat, but I am over dogs and other pets. Now my the collar and leash are reserved for the slave, so much more fulfilling and rewarding for both of us.
While I am savvy with computers, I am not into smart devices, I do not own any as I value my privacy. I do not watch much TV or follow mindless reality shows, I prefer watching all kinds of movies on DVD. I do not share my interest in BDSM with anyone, apart from you. I am not into social networking, Facebook, or whatever it is called now, Twitter, etc. Been there done than many years ago. I do not have any inadequacy, insecurity, or inferiority complex that I have to be liked, approved by the masses! I do not need others to like me, what I do, my images, or thoughts, the only person I need for that is you!
I am about 6ft or 182cm, slim built, 168lbs about 74 kg currently, it varies. My eyes are brown and can sparkle from joy or thunder with rage. I had dark blonde to medium brown hair now just shave my head bald. I am relatively healthy for my age, do not take any medications only vitamins to boost my immunity.
Thee years ago I had an operation, called TURP. It left me with a symptom: no ejaculation, as during the operation the semen lines were cut. So if you are a cum slut, both of us are out luck. On the positive side, I love bare back and can not impregnate you, thus we would not have to use any kind of birth control. My sex drive is still there but not as strong when I was in my 40's, or before the operation. However, I am not looking just for sex through intercourse. There are other ways to enjoy it. I am sure I do not have to write a book for you about it. If you are a nymphomaniac, your sexual desires can be channeled into other areas which are sexual such as humiliation, and other fetishes, from which you can obtain pleasure, just keep in mind the fact it is not about your pleasure, your pleasure comes from your deep submission in the knowledge that you satisfied the ONE, you want to be with.
At the same time, I have to know your needs and what gives you the ultimate aphrodisiacs; sternness or more affection. I enjoy both, it just depends on who I am with, either way, I am in control and get my satisfaction. While love is not a prerequisite, like in a vanilla relationship, M/s is not about love but satisfaction and pleasing. Some slaves do not want any love/affection shown by their master, only severe usage. All these traits just depend on your psyche how you see yourself and your needs. I can be very affectionate, and loving, but do not let that fool you I can be cold, stern too.
When it comes to M/s I am on the strict side, this can be taken as somewhat sadistic as once I decide to punish you for incompliance no amount of pleading or shedding tears will change my mind. I do not dress in special outfits often associated with BDSM scenarios during playtime. For me M/s is not playing, it is a lifestyle choice 24/7 and it has to be for you too.
Modus operandi:
I do have some modus operandi that include that you as my slave has to be shaved, no body hair period apart from on your head and eyebrows. To be nude in my presence unless I tell you otherwise. Good hygiene is a must: to enjoy the tender softness of your skin by my touch, fresh with your aroma to permeate my sense of smell, and also to taste, nude to please my visual sense, but for this, you have to be in good shape, it is important for both of us that you do not let yourself go and keep a trim figure. One of my fetishes is the female vagina, your pussy, especially when aroused and wet. Your pussy must be accessible 24/7 in my presence never covered up. You won't need too many panties. I like perky nipples but not truly a breast person. I like them to be natural, if possible, and if enhanced nothing larger than cup D. If you have a cup B size do not feel inadequate. Sometimes I like to see my slave in a corset. I am very sensual and as noted visually driven.
As for protocol many years ago I wrote a small illustrated booklet that is very detailed. I can send it to you in a .pdf format, but only after I have your submission to be my TPE slave. Once you read it will help your adjustment as my slave immensely.
